This woman and song is full of them….
I’ve been on a talk-radio binge lately, tuning into the “Sirius Stars Too” channel on, you guessed it, Sirius satellite radio, interestingly enough i’ve always previously thought talk-radio was a complete waste of time. Why would anyone listen to random people rant about useless shit that’ll never affect my life. Let’s just say i still haven’t changed my mind, but my routine at work needed to be changed a little.
So listening to these bozos talk, Jason Ellis, Covino, Rich and Jay Thomas, i noticed they all had one recurring theme, they all sounded Alpha as fuck, and treated everyone around them as lesser beings, especially the callers.
Jay Thomas called his woman co-worker “plump” and proceeds to tell her she eats all the wrong things.
Covino called a woman caller entitled, and asks her if she always had a princess attitude.
And Jason is just Jason, hyper dominant.
All this led me to think, are men talk-radio hosts more Alpha than the rest of us. One has to wonder are naturally they are on the radio, or if it’s all an act in order the get more listeners. I’m sure some of it, if not a majority of it is, but they do get some pretty retarded and nasty callers, therefore there has to be some natural Alphaness in there to deal with these kinds of people, i would assume.
I don’t think it’s possible to have a radio persona that goes completely opposite of you natural self outside the radio and at home. But on the other hand i don’t think being the way they are on the radio would fly with most friends and loved ones.
Anyways i’m rambling on. I guess if you want a good example on assholish retorts, how not to take anyone seriously, frame control and general conversational Alphaness, listen to talk-radio.
What do you guys think?
You know, if you just listen, stop everything you do and just take the time to listen every once in a while, women will reveal to you what they truly want in a man and a relationship without any of that feminazi propaganda.
Surfing random blogs lately i found this gem from a female blogger “The Dandy Gal,” an older post, but still carries a valuable lesson.
In her post she lamented how a certain man she was seeing never took the lead and be a man so to speak. Here’s the SMS conversation she posted with her notes
Him: Free tomorrow?
Me: Ok. You are not working?
Him: Should be.
Me: Ok. Let me know again. I should be free after 4pm.
Him: What do you feel like doing? [strike 1. if you ask me out, you better have a good plan]
Me: I don’t know. We’ll talk when you confirm that you can meet.
Him: Arh? Can’t we discuss it now?
Me: I’m lazy to plan for something that may not happen. Why not you decide instead?
Him: I’ll leave it to u. [strike 2]
Me: I don’t like guys who push decisions to girls. Very un-manly.
Him: I’m really easy-going. You can decide. [strike 3]
Me: I don’t mean that as a compliment. I don’t know why guys are exchanging roles with girls. They want girls to make decisions now. Sigh.
Him: It’s ok. Haha. Whatever. [gone case!]
There’s nothing i can add to help elaborate the texts, its all clear in plain black and white. I think she’s from south east asia, which explains her rather un-orthodox english.
In her post she goes on…
I don’t know why he added those smiley faces. It irritates me even more.
Someone should just knock some sense into men. It’s NOT the first time that I’ve accounted such wishy-washy nonsense with a human that has a dick.
What is happening???
Get this clear. No matter how independent a lady is, she still need aMAN. Not aWIMP.
She’s quite deliberately, against the shrieks of all feminazies in the world, revealing what turns women on.
It’s an age old concept in the halls of blogs like mine, but it never hurts to be reminded of the little things, the fundamentals
You could go through Roissy’s AKA Chateau and find some gems in how to text like a man, Here’s one
I had an interesting conversation with an old work friend of mine, she’s one of the few that gets it, so we often talk about social dynamics and biomechanics while giving examples of our everyday lives.
On day she tells me: “Lost, I hate when guys talk and refer to us as their ‘Boss.’ I’m not your boss, i never want to be your boss, do you have any how much of a turn off that is?”
I couldn’t help but laugh a little, she’s right. I remembered a time back in my youth when i always referred a girl i was dating as the “Boss” things inevitably went south pretty quick, at first she took it lightly, sort of as a joke, but as time progressed, she was getting more and more put off by it to the point of starting arguments which carried a tone of resentment. I had failed as a man, i had failed to lead her in our relationship, to take the reigns so to speak. I had no idea of this phenomena, i always thought to myself “what? isn’t that what women want? to be in control and lead their own lives?”
Obviously i had more problems than just calling her the boss, since i was actively living behind that mantra. “I don’t know. What do you want to do?” Sounds familiar?
There is an important lesson to learn from all of this though, is that it never hurts to take charge in a relationship, to lead the way, just don’t stop leading.
So i was reading a bit on “my crazy girldfriend” and i found the following anecdote.
I’ve been being an asshole on purpose to the girl I’ve been “dating” for the past couple of weeks. I’m terrible at breaking up with people so my goal is to usually be such a dick that they don’t want to be with me anymore or so that one big argument can end it without drawing anything out. Well, this girl likes the asshole even more and it “turns her on.” Women are so stupid.
Think about it.