This woman and song is full of them….
Often, there comes a time where you need to cut your losses and turn your back on the girl you’ve been pursuing. This point can come within minutes or hours, or the point of no return can come months later.
The reason this is coming up, is because i am at one of these points right now with a girl i’ve been seeing. And i’ve been dragged far beyond my line of no return than i’d like to admit. I think the reason i let myself get to this point is two fold, one, i haven’t met a girl that i’ve meshed with mentally for a very long time, and i guess i got overly excited, two, we started it off so well, everything was text book and she was investing way more into me than i would into her and so on. I also indirectly broke her ankle and she still paid the rounds at the bar that very night.
I’m pretty sure my demised was sealed due to my work schedule when she ushered the words
“Every time you come back, it’s like i have to get to know you all over again.”
I should of probably seen it coming after that, the slight loss in interest, hindsight is after all 20/20, but i let it continue for a couple more turnarounds (the term we use to illustrate our time spent at home) when i should of just spent my time and energy towards other interests.
Though she still seems interested, its way below the level of interest i’d like it to be.
Live and learn, to have clear boundaries and the willpower to follow those without fail is my lesson for the month.
On a brighter note, one door closes 3 more open….. literally.
I’ve been on a talk-radio binge lately, tuning into the “Sirius Stars Too” channel on, you guessed it, Sirius satellite radio, interestingly enough i’ve always previously thought talk-radio was a complete waste of time. Why would anyone listen to random people rant about useless shit that’ll never affect my life. Let’s just say i still haven’t changed my mind, but my routine at work needed to be changed a little.
So listening to these bozos talk, Jason Ellis, Covino, Rich and Jay Thomas, i noticed they all had one recurring theme, they all sounded Alpha as fuck, and treated everyone around them as lesser beings, especially the callers.
Jay Thomas called his woman co-worker “plump” and proceeds to tell her she eats all the wrong things.
Covino called a woman caller entitled, and asks her if she always had a princess attitude.
And Jason is just Jason, hyper dominant.
All this led me to think, are men talk-radio hosts more Alpha than the rest of us. One has to wonder are naturally they are on the radio, or if it’s all an act in order the get more listeners. I’m sure some of it, if not a majority of it is, but they do get some pretty retarded and nasty callers, therefore there has to be some natural Alphaness in there to deal with these kinds of people, i would assume.
I don’t think it’s possible to have a radio persona that goes completely opposite of you natural self outside the radio and at home. But on the other hand i don’t think being the way they are on the radio would fly with most friends and loved ones.
Anyways i’m rambling on. I guess if you want a good example on assholish retorts, how not to take anyone seriously, frame control and general conversational Alphaness, listen to talk-radio.
What do you guys think?
My brother is dating a hardcore hipsterish feminist. An attractive woman that has previously sworn off relationship and companionship in order to get rich, preferably by marrying an old rich dude. I avoid all gender conversations except for the occasional slip up, in which case i just stop talking and get on with whatever a was doing. There is no point in arguing anything.
Recently i went out for breakfast with my brother and his girl and afterwards ditched the girl and spent a day with my brother. While driving around i asked him.
Me: How is dating a feminist.
Brother: The sex is great.
And that was it, nothing more needed to be said on that subject. You see my brother is also somewhat of a natural (i blame our common upbringing) that got headbutted into the right direction after a series of unfortunate events regarding his ex, even after he had done everything “right.”
So after reflecting on his answer and his actions, or lack there of, towards his current partner, it all made sense. Her viewpoint on feminism doesn’t bother him because he doesn’t care to hear it, and never treads those waters. He keeps conversation light and teases her constantly and never takes her seriously. She would parade him to family and friends and tout him as her boyfriend, my brother would turn around and never mention her to my family. He does everything the “Game” way. Though he doesn’t buy/care about all the stuff we cover here on all our blogs, he sure made the realization and is living with the core principles.
The funny thing is, she, on the hand, has started to become what she despises…. a dependent, a girlfriend… a woman. Though she still bucks and talks all tough, she sure doesn’t act like it anymore, chanting her convictions during the day, and playing the “wife” at night. I find it amusing how willingly she became this way after having a taste of a real man.
I can’t help but being proud of my little brother.
You know, if you just listen, stop everything you do and just take the time to listen every once in a while, women will reveal to you what they truly want in a man and a relationship without any of that feminazi propaganda.
Surfing random blogs lately i found this gem from a female blogger “The Dandy Gal,” an older post, but still carries a valuable lesson.
In her post she lamented how a certain man she was seeing never took the lead and be a man so to speak. Here’s the SMS conversation she posted with her notes
Him: Free tomorrow?
Me: Ok. You are not working?
Him: Should be.
Me: Ok. Let me know again. I should be free after 4pm.
Him: What do you feel like doing? [strike 1. if you ask me out, you better have a good plan]
Me: I don’t know. We’ll talk when you confirm that you can meet.
Him: Arh? Can’t we discuss it now?
Me: I’m lazy to plan for something that may not happen. Why not you decide instead?
Him: I’ll leave it to u. [strike 2]
Me: I don’t like guys who push decisions to girls. Very un-manly.
Him: I’m really easy-going. You can decide. [strike 3]
Me: I don’t mean that as a compliment. I don’t know why guys are exchanging roles with girls. They want girls to make decisions now. Sigh.
Him: It’s ok. Haha. Whatever. [gone case!]
There’s nothing i can add to help elaborate the texts, its all clear in plain black and white. I think she’s from south east asia, which explains her rather un-orthodox english.
In her post she goes on…
I don’t know why he added those smiley faces. It irritates me even more.
Someone should just knock some sense into men. It’s NOT the first time that I’ve accounted such wishy-washy nonsense with a human that has a dick.
What is happening???
Get this clear. No matter how independent a lady is, she still need aMAN. Not aWIMP.
She’s quite deliberately, against the shrieks of all feminazies in the world, revealing what turns women on.
It’s an age old concept in the halls of blogs like mine, but it never hurts to be reminded of the little things, the fundamentals
You could go through Roissy’s AKA Chateau and find some gems in how to text like a man, Here’s one
So Keith Apicary went and tried out to be some singer’s backing dancer. This guy has an unshakable frame, everything he does, it doesn’t matter what, the people around him wish they’d have his confidence.
You can see in it in the video, he commands the room, everyone cannot keep their eyes off of him, the girls want to be with him and the guys want to be him, this is what game and frame control looks like. You can see his looks are sub-par, so if he can do it, anyone can….. you have no excuse.
since i apparently can’t embed videos